Relationships are made in heaven but are put together by people

After hearing spiritual teachers for a while I came to realize that spiritual people are not as such so much interested in other people who lead a happy life with a strong foundation and which are empowered in their life, leading successful family, business and societal ties but in people who they say want very much to help to get past the illusion of their conditioned mind.

Many times I got into hearing from the teachings of having some kind of spiritual practice which can be watching the breath, mantra or prayer which more often than not is an established way of getting on the spiritual journey, a kind of mode de vie.

Now if one establishes such a mode de vie in what is called the second half of life, so to speak, naturally as I understand it through experience to become an established way of life, one needs to spend just as much as one has cultivated in the first part of life, so to speak ... It's empowering to know that you would get through but rarely is this ever talked into a practical approach to establishing it but rather comes after trial and error, falling and raising oneself up again and again which adds to the determination but it also can harden oneself in the relationship with another which he finds he needs to forgive because of kinship of brotherly and sisterly ties and the often reality experienced where the brother or sister expects to meet you not where you are on the path but as a fully realized Being, a Jesus, a Krishna, a Buddha and expecting nothing short of that.

The relationships especially when they have been formed in the constraints imposed by society and established religion but without the necessary tools get one into co-creating with God from day one of the relationship while he or she finds himself in spiritual infancy without the spiritual tools needed to co-create with God from day two onward ... and find themselves acquainted more often than not with the spiritual practices after a failed relationship, shaky societal ties and so on, needing not only to work in much harder conditions but also on multiple fronts ... 

Sometimes it is true that people have found miraculous unfolding to their lives allowing Presence to teach through them and work out the areas of life on strong foundations.