Let me start with a quote from Shunmyo Masuno's book "Don't worry": "Love is beautiful misunderstanding. Marriage is cruel understanding."
It is widely acknowledged including spiritual teachers and enlightened masters that divorce is a trauma.
What is the root cause of the trauma of divorce ? Marriage
If baptism is a sacrament that makes people whole why is there a need for the Sacrament of marriage if they are already one ? And if they aren't already what did the Sacrament of baptism actually accomplish ?
Do you know that people who support marriage and officiate marriage don't have a remedy for the trauma of divorce ?
Healing from trauma is a work one has to do on oneself ... it can't be done by other people and it is to reclaim the connection between cognitive and affective memory. That is done by writing a letter to your younger self. In case of divorce the letter can only have this line:
"Do not marry!"
Universe, if I am before marriage, I want to be me before I was born.
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